The holidays often bring the urge to surprise loved ones with the gift of a furry friend.

While the gesture may seem heartwarming, Wendy Heineke, with Coastal Cats & Critters Inc. and the Coastal Cat Sanctuary in Baldwin County, urges potential gift-givers to pause and consider the responsibilities of pet ownership before wrapping a ribbon around a cat or dog (or even a rabbit at Easter).

"People mean well, but adopting a pet, you know, it's a 15- to 20-year commitment for cats, not just a holiday surprise," Heineke said in a recent interview.

She emphasized that the decision to bring a pet into someone's life should be carefully considered, with both the giver and recipient prepared for the emotional, financial and time investment that pet ownership requires.

"You really have to think about whether the recipient is prepared for the long-term commitment of having a pet. It's not just about the cute factor — it's about ensuring the pet will have a good life," Heineke said. "Impulse buys are the worst buys when it comes to an animal."

Heineke encourages people to consider factors such as the recipient's living situation, work schedule and financial ability to care for a pet. Veterinary bills, food costs and unexpected medical emergencies can quickly add up, and not everyone is prepared for the commitment.

She also noted the importance of thinking carefully about buying a pet for children. While some kids may be responsible, parents often bear the brunt of pet care.

"I see a lot more dumps with dogs in January and February," Heineke said. "Puppies are really hard because you have to take years to train."

Before purchasing a pet as a gift — or for oneself — research is crucial. Heineke's experience reflects a broader concern about people acquiring animals without understanding their specific needs. A personal example drives the point home: a childhood friend's father once bought her several fish, including a betta. Betta fish, being territorial and aggressive, attacked its tankmates, prompting the family to consider flushing it down the toilet. Fortunately, I was able to intervene and took the fish home with me to live in its own tank.

For those who are certain a pet is the right gift, involve the recipient in the process. This could mean giving a gift certificate to a shelter or rescue organization, allowing the recipient to select a pet that suits their lifestyle. It also provides time to prepare their home and hearts for a new companion.

It's important to remember to spay and neuter any pets you get. This is healthier for the animals and prevents unwanted kittens and puppies who could end up homeless.

Heineke also recommends considering older pets, which are often overlooked but can make excellent companions.

"I would buy a 5- or 6-year-old dog that's just ready to mellow out," Heineke said. "I mean, why not? Most people don't focus on senior dogs, but they're the best. Cats, too."

For those looking to give a meaningful gift to an animal lover, alternatives to a live pet can include donating to a local animal shelter in the recipient's name or purchasing pet-related items like toys, beds or supplies if the person already has a pet.